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My late husband’s legacy lives on in my children

December is a month of university graduation here in New Zealand. All the hard work, blood, sweat, and tears conclude in a cacophony of salutations and shouts of joy from family members. Jaime Christmas celebrates with her son Joshua at his college graduation ceremony this month. (Courtesy of Jaime…

Having a backup plan for when caregivers get sick

About a month ago, my father-in-law came down with what seemed like a cold. But his condition gradually worsened, which sent him to the hospital. There he was diagnosed with COVID-19. Because he takes on most of the caregiving duties for my mother-in-law, who has familial amyloid polyneuropathy,…

How neuropathy caregivers become a proxy for emotional suffering

For neuropathy patients, especially those who have familial amyloid polyneuropathy (FAP), the caregiver may become their arms, legs, eyes, and ears. While that may seem like a daunting task, there’s a benefit: Caregivers experience an emotional side to their daily duties that seems to make them one with patients.